Category: Guides for the future

Trust, once broken, feels almost impossible to glue back together. If you’re reading this, you’re probably carrying a heavy heart. Maybe, despite the hurt, you realise you still love the cheater, and reconciliation is on your mind. I’m usually quick to encourage people to dump cheaters, but I know not everyone can immediately accept this…

When your friend cheats, staying neutral might feel like the easiest option. It avoids confrontation, preserves the status quo, and spares you the discomfort of getting involved. But ethical responsibility demands more than passive silence. But what feels like the middle ground often isn’t as neutral as we’d like to believe. Sometimes, the ethical choice…

Six years. A shared future. A life built together. And then I found out about the cheating. When I told a friend I’d walked away from it all, including losing the home we had secured together, she was taken aback momentarily. “But given the sunk cost, couldn’t you have tried to find a way to…

It’s difficult to understand the sheer trauma of being cheated on until you personally experience it. If you’ve faced it, be kind to yourself. Know that it’s okay to scream, and to cry. You’ve been betrayed and it probably feels like the sky has collapsed. But after the storm passes, when the dust settles, you are…

Dating a cheater, whether they cheated on you or someone else, is fundamentally about risk management. Whilst people certainly can change, the evidence and logic suggest that reconciling with a cheater deserves far more caution than many offer. It’s a bit like buying a used car that’s already broken down once. Sure, it might run…